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Roland teaches people how to become
centered and less reactive to pressures. Responding to inner reason instead
of outer provocation, the person becomes calmer and begins to exert a
positive effect instead of absorbing outer suggestions and tease. It is
Roland's belief that we can all be better moms, dads, mates, and citizens
when we learn the secret of not getting upset. |
Archived
Programs
The Roland Trujillo Show, brought to you by the Center for Common Sense
Counseling and as a public service of this radio station.
Lively discussions about today's troubling family issues. Stress solutions & tools for Christian & like-minded people.
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September 5, 2010
What is Religion?
Roland discusses how religion is
the relationship of a soul with its Maker. The role of intuition. The importance
of obeying our intuition. Finding meaning and true purpose in life.
August 29, 2010
Recovery from Emotional Problems Through
Forgiveness
Roland discusses emotional issues:
how they begin and how the methods we use to deal with emotions often make
matters worse. How authorities have failed us. The importance of father.
Learning to forgive.
August 22, 2010
How to Regain Control of Your Life
Roland discusses the role of
emotionalism in our distresses. The alternatives to repression, drugs, or
alcohol. The beginning of natural control is forgiveness. How meditation can
help.
August 15, 2010
Understanding Self-doubt and Learning to
Trust What You See for Yourself
Roland discusses self-doubt and
how false reassurances can betray us. All inventors, explorers, and truly
creative people follow their intuition. Why meditation can help you recover self
assurance and true purpose.
August 8, 2010
Recovery from Trauma and Distressed States
Thru Insight and Forgiveness
Roland discusses why we need an
objective, enlightened viewpoint for dealing with life. What is intuition is
addressed, then how resentment of our father is the primal trauma.
August 1, 2010
Understanding Anxiety, Part 1
Roland discusses free-floating
anxiety and angst. Culture and the human condition. How pressure contributes to
anxiety. Meditation as a coping strategy.
July 25, 2010
Recovering Spontaneity, Joy & Purpose
Why people have mental &
relationship issues. The exposure to cruelty, confusion, and wickedness and how
it affects our state of mind. Recovery through insight and forgiveness. Where to
access our helpful resources.
July 18, 2010
How to Regain Control of Your Life
Roland discusses the role of
emotionalism in our distresses. The alternatives to repression, drugs, or
alcohol. The beginning of natural control is forgiveness. How meditation can
help.
July 11, 2010
Starting Over -- It's Easier Than You Think
Why do people keep messing up? Why
do so many people become failures in life? Roland discusses how humanity is a
fallen race. Why God is our closest relative. He shows just what the ego is.
Where do we find God? How to be restored to a right relationship with God.
July 4, 2010
Recovery from Extreme States
Roland talks about people in
distress. He discusses what sustains people in extreme situations. Roland talks
about the findings of Vice Admiral James Stockdale. Roland discusses
forgiveness, faith, family and love. How love is the ultimate protection for
kids' well being.
June 27, 2010
Recovering from Emotional Trauma
Roland discusses why we have
conflict. How resentment causes trauma. Roland talks about the inner light. How
we know God loves us. Roland emphasizes the value of learning to meditate.
June 20, 2010
How to Solve All Your Problems
Roland talks about how the
individual, the family and the whole world are getting worse because we lack
understanding and wisdom. Roland shows how understanding is from God, and how we
don't know how to find God. Roland talks about where to find God and how
connecting with Him will improve your life and resolve your problems. Roland
mentions the stillness meditation available at CoachRoland.com.
June 13, 2010
How to Calm Down
Roland points out how we become
upset and stressed out. He discusses the free meditation and other resources at CoachRoland.com. He reveals the benefits of better relationships, peace of mind,
and better problem solving skills that practicing the meditation brings. Roland
announces that he is available for consultation at LivePerson.com for live chat,
email, or phone advice.
June 6, 2010
How to Regain Control of Your Life
Roland shows how we listen more to
what others say than to ourselves. He discusses how we always are led astray and
make mistakes. Roland shows how to start living intuitively and spontaneously.
Roland concludes by describing the many resources he makes available.
May 30, 2010
How to Stop Being Upset
Roland discusses how patience and
faith cancel out upset, worry and doubt. How to control your emotions. Roland
announces that he is now available at LivePerson.com for consultation via chat,
phone or email.
May 23, 2010
Where Did We Go Wrong? How to Get Back on
Course
Roland discusses our biggest
mistakes today. What happens when we don't trust our gut. How dads fail their
family. Roland announces that he is now at LivePerson.com for consultation via
chat, phone or email.
May 16, 2010
How to Believe and Have Faith
Roland answers the question "What
is faith?" He discusses affirmations and emotions and why they are substitutes
for the real thing. Roland talks about faith and doubt. He talks about misplaced
faith. What real faith is.
May 9, 2010
Your Attitude Determines Your Altitude
Roland discusses why letting go of
anger and judgment are the first steps to better relationships. Why pride
increases stress. Learning humility. Where to find free self help resources.
May 2, 2010
Becoming the "You" You Were Meant to Be
Why do we have conflict? Why do we
feel awkward and uneasy about the way we are? Roland discusses trauma and
corruption. How to refind your true identity. Why meditation helps.
April 25, 2010
Faith and Love: The Powerful Antidotes to
Trauma
Roland discusses our basic
weakness--our emotional over-reactions to pressure. Roland describes how
atrocity producing situations are also trauma producing. Meditation restores us
to our ground of good where love and patience are. Roland talks about the free
resources available at www.commonsensecounseling.org.
April 18, 2010
Understanding Our Dual Heritage: The
Spiritual and the Natural
The carnal wars with the
spiritual. Confronting our own hypocrisy. Conquering our passions. Yielding to
conscience. Becoming whole.
April 11, 2010
Why Men Must be Noble and Women Forgiving
Roland says many people today are
apathetic. Roland introduces his new books on parenting & marriage. How children
see father. Why men must not fail their kids or wife. Finding restored faith &
love.
April 4, 2010
Roland on Stress and Recovery
Everyone's story -- how we became
sensitive to stress. What is intuition and how do you find it. A word about
Easter. Starting over with joy.
March 28, 2010
Healing Relationships, Part 2
Get right with God, then you can
get right with others. Refinding spontaneity and innocence. How intuition helps
us relate to others with love and understanding. Where to find Roland's new book
on conquering stress. Next week: couples and marriage.
March 21, 2010

Healing Relationships, Part 1
Why relationships are important.
How good is your relationship with your inner good? God cares about family
relationships. How to start improving your love life.
March 14, 2010
The Secret to Managing Anger
There is a question from a man who
became aware of his anger after he had kids. He yells at them but doesn't want
to. Roland discusses this topic in depth. Also, what to do when you become aware
of a wrong emotion.
March 7, 2010
The Top Questions Roland Gets
Roland begins by discussing why
hard times and trouble awaken people to search for real answers. Roland reveals
the top questions he gets. Roland talks to men.
February 28, 2010
Finding the Life in the Spirit
Roland answers the question which
version of the Bible he likes. Next is a discussion about how to read the Bible
and why study can cause guilt. Roland talks about the life of joy and freedom,
and how to re-find it. Finally, he mentions the free meditation download.
February 21, 2010
Ask Roland
Roland begins by discussing the
Golden Mean, and why we should be calm. He discusses exaggeration, gossip, and
deceit in light of I Peter 3:10. Roland answers a question about boyfriend
problems. He also answers a question about parenting toddlers.
February 14, 2010
Starting Over -- It's Easier Than You Think
Why do people keep messing up? Why
do so many people become failures in life? Roland discusses how humanity is a
fallen race. Why God is our closest relative. He shows just what the ego is.
Where do we find God? How to be restored to a right relationship with God.
February 7, 2010
A True Friend Has the Love to Tell Us the
Truth
Roland answers the question "What
is conscience?" What is resentment and why should we give it up? Can we love and
hate at the same time? Roland concludes with thoughts about repentance.
January 31, 2010
Common Sense Religion
What is faith? Why do we doubt
ourselves? In this lecture, Roland continues his discussion of common sense
religion, how we lost faith and how to refind it.
January 24, 2010
Religion Without Pressure
Roland discusses basic
Christianity. He talks about the importance of seeing and choosing for ourselves
without pressure. He answers the question "Why are the schools failing?"
January 17, 2010
For a Time Such As This
Roland discusses hard times and
how they can bring out the best in us. The lecture turns to intuition and how to
find it. Roland answers the question "Who is God?" He concludes with a parent's
question about casual dating.